Technologychanged.Human needsdidn't.
Psychology, research + practical tools for protecting your attention, strengthening connection and living more intentionally with technology.
Six ways of looking at one question.
How do we use modern technology without losing the things that make life human?
Attention
Attention is the raw material of experience — and the most contested resource of the century.
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Connection
We have never been more reachable. Reachability and closeness are not the same thing.
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Identity
Self-image used to form in small rooms. Now it forms in front of an audience that never leaves.
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Digital Life
The devices aren't the problem. The default settings might be.
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Presence
Every gap in the day now has something waiting to fill it. Gaps were doing something.
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Real Life♥
The point isn't less technology. It's more life.
Explore real life →How are you living with technology — really?
Not a screen-time score. A short set of questions about patterns — where your attention goes, what your connections feel like, how comfortable you are with an empty ten minutes. Separate pathways for adults, teenagers and families.
Take the check-inYour Modern Human Snapshot
"Your overall phone use isn't necessarily the interesting part. What stands out is where it appears — the first minutes after waking, the seams between tasks, and whenever a small pocket of waiting opens up."
Psychology, technology + the strange experience of being human right now
Why We Reach for Our Phones When Nothing Is Wrong
The reach usually isn't about boredom, anxiety or willpower. It's about what happens in the half-second when nothing is happening.
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The Disappearance of Boredom
Boredom was never pleasant. It was, however, doing something — and we have quietly eliminated it from the day.
8 min read
Connected All Day. Lonely Anyway.
10 min read
The Comparison Trap Has an Algorithm Now
9 min read
Your Brain Wasn't Built for Infinite Scroll
8 min read
What Constant Notifications Do to Attention
7 min read
Are We Losing Our Ability to Be Alone?
8 min read
The Psychology of Read Receipts
6 min read
How you use a platform predicts more than how long
Directed, reciprocal interaction tends to be associated with better wellbeing outcomes than passive consumption of others' content.
Walk withoutinput.
Take one short walk today without a podcast, music, messages or anything playing in your ears. Let your surroundings be enough input.
Nothing to listen to.
Something to notice.
Why try it?
Unaccompanied attention behaves differently. Ideas that can't surface over a soundtrack tend to arrive somewhere around the second block.
No streaks. No optimization.
Just something to notice. ♥
Living Well in a Digital World
The foundational course. Six sessions built around the six pillars, designed to change how technology sits in your life — not how guilty you feel about it.
- 01Attention: mapping where it actually goes
- 02Connection: contact, closeness and the difference
- 03Identity: comparison, performance and self-worth
- 04Digital Life: designing defaults instead of resisting them
- 05Presence: rebuilding tolerance for unoccupied time
- 06Real Life: making something that competes with the feed
Things worth bringing into real life.
A considered edit of books, tools + everyday objects that support attention, connection, creativity, rest and life beyond the screen.
View the full Edit →“These are the things I’d choose because they help create more room for attention, creativity, connection + actual life — not because everyone needs another product.”
A few names we return to.
Brands + makers we return to.
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Explore quotes →“Nothing in life is as important as you think it is while you are thinking about it.”